Saturday, July 14, 2012

Happiness is not always what we have.


We are now living in a world where we are not contented with what they have. Sometimes, we tend to look for some things that will make us happy. What is happiness really nowadays?
Can we measure happiness by the number of our friends in facebook, Hi-tech gadgets or even money? Definitely no!. Happiness cannot be measured by the material things we have. “It’s not about money…” That is according to a song. Money can’t buy happiness.

While we are having great meals, some children in the streets are starving. Many become insane because of hunger…but what is the connection of this to gladness? We know the answers deep within our hearts that there are instances when we tend to forget the real essence of our existence.

How do we expect our government officials to live a happy life in their homes while some people suffer from abuse, crime and poverty? How could we take the fact that sometimes, we are not contented of what we have---things which others are dying to have? Why do we keep on searching for the things that could make us glad if we have God? Why do we keep on wasting a lot of money buying expensive things if we could share? Why do we keep on pretending to be someone we’re not? How about you, are you pleased about your superficial life?
God gave us knowledge to make our lives better. He gave us the talents and skills to use, to improve the kind of person that we are. We are given family and friends whom we could run to in difficult times.  If we ignore the superficialities in life, we could see how blessed we are. Sometimes, we forget to appreciate the simple things because of the shallowness of the way we live.

We have to be gratified with what we are and what we have. It is okay to dream but you will have to wake up and make those dreams come into life. Our existence is not about the kind of persons we want to project before others but the kind of person we are in the eyes of God. He has given us so much to make our existence beautiful as well as to make ourselves His best creation ever.

We don’t need to be perfect to attain contentment; we just need to be morally upright and be responsible and accountable for our actions and decisions. We know exactly the difference between needs and wants. We know exactly what we need and we don’t need all the things we want.
 We are so much blessed. We should be happy because we are given life: the life that we should value; the life that we should protect; and the life that we should live in accordance to the Divine will. The moment we give dignity to our existence, then, we will be happy with who and what we are, rather than what we have or what we can do.

You cannot buy happiness in a department store. Happiness comes to those who share, make and give the most of their existence in this world. Let us always remember, “Happiness becomes beautifully genuine when shared.” Never forget to seize the day and live according to God’s plans for you!